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BDSM Questions and Answers

BDSM has always been shrouded in a veil of mystery. Whether you just want to know more about this erotic practice or are part of the hypnotic BDSM world, BDSM Q&A is the place where you can come and share both your questions but also provide some answers.

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Looking for a cheap but good quality cage – recomendations

I got an amazing cage online from pet mart, a few years back. I don’t know what kind of cage you’re looking for specifically but this one is pretty good. It was made for large dog breeds, roths an...

Answered by: Fitzgerald 28 views

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Can you even “force” someone to orgasm?!

Your dilemma is probably “Why would you need to force orgasm upon someone? Isn’t orgasm supposed to be a pleasant and desirable thing?” The thing is, orgasms can be very violent and strong and s...

Answered by: JasmineXXX 26 views

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How painful is fisting?

It depends on a lot of things. How “trained” your vagina or anus is, and, of course, whether it is going to be done to a vagina or to an anus. Anus is less flexible and can easily tear so it is na...

Answered by: cait 12 views

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Are bondage toys safe?

Not sure what exactly you mean by bondage toys here, maybe you meant BDSM toys in general? Because there are a lot of toys that don’t have anything to do with bondage. Anyways, to answer your questi...

Answered by: cait 26 views

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Whats the most popular thing in BDSM?

Dominance/submission, bondage, suspension, spanking, light whipping, foot fetish, blindfolds, gags, cuffs…

Answered by: Fitzgerald 30 views

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Whats the most popular thing in BDSM?

I think bondage is very popular because it can be light and still very erotic so it attracts vanilla people too.

Answered by: chattykatty 30 views

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What’s the use of a ball gag in sex?

It’s a form of torture, in a way, for BDSM folks. Its purpose is to keep the “subject” (it’s called a sub or a submissive in BDSM) silent. It’s a form of domination, both physical and psycho...

Answered by: Ming 36 views

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What’s the use of a ball gag in sex?

to keep you quiet

Answered by: Dobroslav 36 views

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My Dom sucks at aftercare…

I have to say I agree, I think you should leave him and find a better Dom. Aftercare is essential for everything, literally. It is so, so important. And if he’s not good at it, or worse, if he’s n...

Answered by: Potheassi 10 views

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My Dom sucks at aftercare…

Change the Dom, then. Leave him. No good Dom will ever neglect aftercare or be bad at it. That’s not a good dom and you don’t need him.

Answered by: punisher 10 views