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How to tell my boyfriend I like BDSM?

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  1. It isn’t simple to introduce changes into a relationship, but it’s usually that way because people don’t communicate enough, or simply overthink the whole thing. Don’t let the possible scenarios you construct in your mind discourage you. You have to be honest to your partner if you want your relationship to grow, improve and be a pleasure for you both. The first and most important thing is that you have to communicate. You need to tell your boyfriend that you would like to try BDSM with him, but not in an aggressive, assertive way. Be gentle, and first mention some light bondage or role-playing. Also, encourage your partner to share some of his fantasies with you, maybe you’ll realize that he’s into BDSM, too. Moreover, don’t talk about your BDSM desires like they’re something you should be ashamed of, or as that should be a big, horrifying secret. The atmosphere you set up can do the half of the work for you. Take a slow pace and make it sound extremely fun and satisfying. Don’t forget to mention that some spicing up in the bedroom would revive your relationship and bring more excitement into your love life. If you explain everything and make your boyfriend realize how important and pleasurable this is for you, he’ll certainly decide to at least give it a try.

    tessa578 - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply


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