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I suspect my spouse is secretly into BDSM. Are there any typical tell-tale signs to watch out for?

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  1. It depends on what kind of BDSM activity your spouse is (allegedly) into. If he or she is dominant, or a master, there will not be any physical signs on their body, such as bruises, cuts, burns, etc. If he or she is a submissive, then there definitely have to be at least some barely visible signs on the body. Any unusual objects, which might not necessarily involve whips, gags, costumes and masks, but simple items such as candles, ropes and duct tape, could also be a clue. You should also check the websites your spouse recently visited. Many people who are new to the lifestyle try to get informed and learn about it as much as they can, and looking for online sources is the most convenient way. If you can, check their banking account, checks and slips for purchases made in specialized stores. Look for your spouse’s reaction when you’re watching a movie together and a violent sexual scene comes up. Of course, if you really want to be sure, you can always simply ask your spouse about it. Make sure not to come off as judgmental or scornful, otherwise your spouse will just shut down and refuse to tell the truth.

    joseph - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply


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