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Is hanky code a gay thing?

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  1. Well, yes, it used to be a strictly gay thing, but then it also extended to the leather communities and consequently to BDSM, although in a different way and to a much lesser extent. For example, color-coding was once a very important means of communication between gay people, but it definitely doesn’t have a role that important in today’s BDSM communities. Many people who are into kink do not even know what certain colors or bandana positions mean. For example, that if you are a sub, you’re supposed to wear a hanky/bandana somewhere on the right, like in the right pocket.

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