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What does a full-time, real-life BDSM relationship look like and what are some dos and don’ts for a dom?

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  1. Real-life 24/7 BDSM relationships are much like any other relationship, at least on the outside, but with some differences in the personal dynamics between the partners. For instance, a dom/sub relationship relies heavily on a set of precise rules but, most of all, it relies on two things: the sub’s complete surrender to the dom’s will and the dom’s absolute control of what goes down in the relationship. A sub needs to ask the dom’s (or master’s) permission for literally any kind of action and the dom (master) needs to guide, nurture, protect and, above all, train and educate the sub. He or she is also responsible for keeping everything safe, sane and secure. Basically, the dom does with the sub whatever he or she pleases, as long as it falls within the preset limits of consent. The dom needs to be able to impose his or her own dominance and authority and must never waver, be disorganized, sloppy or careless. Some doms believe that their own pleasure should be the only goal and what the sub feels or experiences should be absolutely irrelevant, while the others think that punishment, dominance and training should be equally fulfilling for their sub.

    rajesh - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply


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