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What should I wear on my first BDSM date with my Dom?

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I have never been on a BDSM date before and I wonder if there’s some kind of dress code or something. I know it sounds stupid, but I just don’t want to look like an idiot and make my Dom lose interest. What are your experiences? Thanks in advance!

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  1. You can wear whatever you like and whatever makes you feel sexy. Not everyone who is into BDSM is also into latex and that kind of stuff. Wear whatever you would otherwise wear on your first date. After all, if all goes well, you’ll take it off anyway. 😉

    tessa578 - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply

  2. I agree, the latex stuff is just a stereotype. Don’t get me wrong, there are many people who like it, just not every single person who is into BDSM. I wouldn’t stress about it so much. Your Dom might even tell you what to wear.

    Anne - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply

  3. It depends on whether you are going out or you are meeting your Dom in the privacy of his/her home. If you are meeting in public, it would be a bit weird to put on some exotic gear and wear it at a restaurant or a coffee shop, but if you are going to your Dom’s place, you can get as playful as you’d like.

    joseph - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply

  4. Been there. It really depends on your Dom. I have had all kinds of experiences, but most of them just keep it casual, at least on the first date. I wish I’d known that before, though. Nothing worse than showing up all dolled up in your stilettos and your Dom is just rocking a sweatshirt, it can really dampen your mood.

    rajesh - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply

  5. It really isn’t such a big of a deal, but if you are so keen on making a good impression, just try to remember what your Dom likes, if you have ever talked about anything related to outfits and let that be your guide. If you haven’t talked about that kind of stuff, just remember, it’s not what you wear, it’s how you wear it.

    manny85 - Dec 29, 2016 | Reply


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