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What’s the point of BDSM?

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  1. People are different and different people like different things. Some enjoy heavy metal while others prefer country, but all of them listen to music. It’s the same with sex. There are people who are satisfied with regular, vanilla relationships, and then there are those who need some extra intensity and excitement in their love and sex lives. BDSM is a type of alternative lifestyle for all those who feel the urge to be dominant or dominated by someone. It’s a consensual relation where both parties (or all of them, if there are more than two) are satisfied with the roles they play. BDSM isn’t only about the dominant person, although the majority of people tend to think otherwise. Just like doms crave for someone to submit to them, subs eagerly look for an authoritative individual to serve him or her. Once they find each other, the needs of both of them are fulfilled. Dom is happy to decide, demand, order and take control, and sub finds pleasure and joy in obeying, serving, submitting and following the dom. Therefore, purpose of BDSM is to make this constant power exchange pleasant and romantic, and, above all, well-controlled. When it’s consensual, everything is allowed in relationships.

    joseph - Dec 28, 2016 | Reply


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